Blue Stiley

To Make an Impact, "Find Your Table" Simple methods to build trust & meaningful connections
The most influential person I ever met was my martial arts instructor. When he wasn’t training special forces, Olympic athletes, or local families, he could be found at a diner, buying coffee for anyone who wanted to join him for a conversation. Through him, I learned that simply sitting down with someone can build trust, break down barriers and form meaningful relationships. He had a special ability to make people feel heard, seen, and valued—like a “Million Bucks.”

Whether it’s for your brand, company, or organization, a single interaction can leave a lasting impact and shape lives in unexpected ways. If you want to stand out and make a difference, find your own “Table.” Be intentional about building a supportive team and community through genuine relationships, and make others feel included, valued, and uplifted. In this compelling and transformative message, the audience will learn the qualities, actions and skills necessary to easily go above and beyond, grow their influence, and make a lasting impact that spreads like wild fire.

Navigating No: How to overcome rejection, failure & self-doubt
We’ve all faced rejection, failure and self-doubt (imposter syndrome) which can create fear and hold us back from pursing our dreams. Overcoming “No” requires a mindset shift, seeing it not as a measure of worth, but as a stepping stone for growth. Life’s “No’s” are locked doors we haven’t yet found the right key for. It’s about flipping the mental switch from “No” to “On,” moving forward and taking action to do what is required to reach your goals.

Success doesn’t come by accepting “No” as a final answer. To achieve your goals, you must embrace failure, take risks, face rejection and adapt to challenges. Overcoming these obstacles demands seeing them objectively, having emotional resilience, a positive mindset and taking a proactive approach. Audiences will learn to see setbacks as opportunities that actually present their next move.

Darkside For Life™: Why the bad guys are so impactful & just way cooler
Great story telling shapes how we lead, and few characters captivate us like legendary villains. They exude confidence, command attention, and leave a lasting impact. But beneath the surface, their failures teach us some of the most powerful lessons in leadership, culture and decision-making.

This immersive keynote challenges leaders and organizations to rethink influence, resilience, and integrity. Through engaging stories and interactive experience, attendees will discover why the easy path, fear-based leadership, ego and shortcuts, ultimately leads to failure, while true leadership requires courage, self-awareness and purpose. Step into the world of “Baddies”, uncover the hidden wisdom in their mistakes and walk away with a renewed perspective on leading with impact. Because, even villains and the Darkside, can inspire good.